Seek Safely

"Be the change that you wish to see in the world"


We Seek, We Change, We Grow

As Mahatma Gandhi said "Be the change that you wish to see in the world". Change your life, Change your perspective, Change your day.

When we want to change, we often look to others to inspire and motivate us, leading and teaching us to a new way of thinking and acting.

The leaders in the self-help industry have built an empire that is $11 billion strong. We need them to abide by some very basic values to help us on our journey.

To change, and grow we need to be respected. We need our teachers to have integrity, living the lessons that are being taught. We need to be given accurate and truthful information about their knowledge and experience. When we seek we should be protected so that our journey is productive. Our leaders should have a plan to ensure our safety.

A simple set of values can guarantee the change we seek.

A simple set of values could prevent further tragedy: CNN.com


We have turned these values into a promise. A promise that will ensure a productive and safe journey for all who seek growth and change. We have offered this promise to the self-help industry, so they can make the world safe for change.



When attending a Self-Help Seminar or Retreat Event, we encourage seekers to be aware of the environment and behaviors of those around them that may interfere with their safety, inhibiting their journey of personal growth.



Life, Love, & Adventure - We are Kirby Brown

Kirby Brown was a “full on” kind of person. She gave everything her all. When asked by James Ray to play “full on”, she did. Kirby believed that following his direction would change her life for the better but instead she lost her life. He completely disregarded her safety. Her spirit lives on and her story of life, love and adventure, is a story we all share. As long as we are seeking, WE ARE KIRBY BROWN. Let her life inspire us and her death teach us to be safe on our growth journeys, choosing our teachers wisely.

My Name is Kirby Brown
My life was lived full on

My adventures were about growth
I lived through love & song

Through experience I grew
My soul always in flight

My journeys were amazing
Every day and every night

Despite one man’s efforts
My life force remains strong

Despite one man’s negligence
My spirit continues on

He can never have my spirit
As it is a part of all of you

So SEEK Safely my friends
And may your journeys always be true

  • Kirby 1
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  • Kirby 8


Resources for your journey of change

Case Study: Ed Preston – Spirit Quest in Sedona

Case Study: Ed Preston – Spirit Quest in Sedona

Every provider of help is unique. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I provide individual and family therapy through the lens of my education and my experience and...

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Putting the Self in Self-Help: Is Kumare Fraud or Fact?

Putting the Self in Self-Help: Is Kumare Fraud or Fact?

At the SEEK SAFELY SUMMIT in Sedona, Arizona, we showed clips of the documentary, “Kumare” produced by Vikram Gandhi. Vikram is a film producer from New...

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Feedback to Implement The Promise

Feedback to Implement The Promise

While SEEK is NOT endorsing or promoting any signer of the Promise, we are deeply appreciative to those signers who have shared how they have put the values of the...

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Implementing the SEEK Safely Promise

Implementing the SEEK Safely Promise

What is a promise? According to Webster’s Dictionary, a promise is: “A declaration that one will do or refrain from doing something specified. A declaration...

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No Judgement Here! Just Safe Seeking!

No Judgement Here! Just Safe Seeking!

We have often explained that we are not against “alternative” paths to finding meaning in our lives. You may look to religion, you may be interested in...

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